I Sight

The presence of ones mind is the sight into ones foreshadowing.

The Twine of Two: Misconceptions

...TTT

"God made marriage, but he's not in it with you..."

Something I knew growing up but still see in peoples eyes of first time marriages. People believe that it is going to be this divine, overwhelming feeling of heaven. They do not see that it is only a promise that they are offering to each other and God is only there to hear your promise as he did countless times when you pray for him to take you out of a situation promising him that you will change; in which many times, we do not.

Marriage is not a spiritual rising, it is a celebration of the unity of two people. Know that you will not be lifted into the sky, know that you will not see God or is Angels, Know that the moment leading up to "I do" is an experience of promising yourself to someone else is lead up like everything in life in which we hold expectations. When the experience is over, we are diminished back to our old self; the person we were leading to the "I do."

The Windows Self

There are too many mirrors in the world.
Can you find your true self?
If you look out the window you'll see anything,
If you step out the door you'll find anything.
But stay indoors and find yourself not amounting to anything

No Control

We live only because of the things our mind does without us knowing. To live is the minds first instinct and although can lose care for himself, the mind do his best to save itself. We live a controlled life in which the master is our mind. We have almost no choice as what we think we want has already been decided by our mind, it just allow us to think we are making the decisions.

Sad Stories...

Why do song with sad story most time have the most beautiful lyric as well as instruments? 

Is it because sad stories tell the best tale?

Self Interest Leading to Greater Good...

Self interests are interest that can be a self motivated into a greater good for all. In that, you must understand that nothing is free; you are paying with currency, time, other objects, or other intangibles.

Every Pages Meaning

sometime they show up, new feeling

and it is up to us to put them to good use

sometimes they show up with great meaning

but if we do not understand them, it becomes pointless

Who You Are...

"One is most himself when one understands where one came from"

Because of my casual respect for peoples space, I fell into the trap of not knowing who I am. I know who I am today based on only what I have experienced. I do not know whom I am today because I do not know what the people I came from endured in life. I know so little of them, that in reflection, I know less about myself.

We are shaped by our surrounding in which finds us our friends, that of which are the most influence in our lives. We find them based on the things in common we share at that moment, but as we grow, we grow apart and our change influence them as their change influences them.

For may years forward, the friends we have, are the most influence in our lives; that of which our environment as provided us with. Then at some point in our lives, mid 30's upward, we start so seek, or seek more of whom the people we came from were. Why where they whom they were and what caused them to be so. In all we will be looking into them to find what we have in common with them.

Happiness Through Misery

"Those who look for misery will find that they were already happy"

We are all searching for the state of happiness and in doing so we are looking into things that we believe we make us content. Those things are manufactured happiness because to be happy is a simple thing. Happiness is a simple thing and it takes very little to make someone happy. The happiness we are looking for now is jealousy. We think we will be happier if we have more than others, but if we have more than other and they are jealous, won't some try to take it from us? And if they succeed, how content are we?

Touching the base that after one has acquire all the thing that he things will make him happy, he will find that all of those things are fine, but they do not make someone happy. He himself made himself happy by accomplishing what he did to get where he did. Then happiness is time spent with people, the little thing.

If a man live sole in the world, all the cars, all the gold, and all the money will not be on him, for all what objects are made for is to share it with others.

Dreamers

If one is as light as a butterfly, one can easily be blown away by the wind.

We need to dream/ create goals for ourselves in life. But we cannot hold ourselves to those goals as they are guide to different stages of life. Once one has become too dependent on their dreams, they living in the clouds, hence they are light and easily blown away

Ones Weakness

One must take his weakness and make them into his strengths, they must also take their strengths and make them their weakness in order to be successful.

Most of us do not know our weakness but we stick with our strengths. What we do not know is that focusing on our weakness will strengthen them. Our strength can be visible many times and so can our weakness, which leaves us vulnerable. Those whom focus on their weakness have higher position than anyone and are more successful than too many. Also doing so, gives you two strength and thus gives one upper chance as most have one strength to lose and one will two.

Better Self: Through The Truth

" A person that only see things in their own eye cannot see in the eye of man"

As we are all driven by our inner drive, we survive by being able to be driven in light of man. When one man sees through his own eyes only, he's forsaken to not see the truth. Ones eye, ones mind allow him to only see things in his prospective and knowing this, should makes one realize that sometimes he has to battle himself for the sake of his better self.

Successful Living

"In order for one to live in light of society, one cannot live in light of self."

Everything that matters to one matter to him and only him where he is alone, Everything that matters to one man in society, matters not to the society for the real means of being social is finding what one has in common with society therefore living in harmony in the society. That a man finds his own self interest above all can only deem him not a part of society. He cannot cry that society will not absorb him, when did/ does not absorb the rules of the society he wish to be part of.

Finding New Self

"One must depart from self to find a new self."

Each of us have something "in our ways or attitude" we would like to change. We find most time that those change do not come and if one is able to change what is needed to change, the changes does not apply with everyone. One must change for himself first before changing in the eyes of the world for one is truly in control of what the world think of him (her). 

Give With Passion, Give With Care

Many give: knowledge, lessons, stories, charity, all their have. What is not realized is that all that you give mean less than what is gained. What is gain is the ultimate meaning to what you give. Give with the same passion; the same care as anything you love and what you give will be either more or the closest to what you give.

Don't just give, give with care.

Guidance To Achievements

There is guidance other than the mind, there is guidance beyond what we can see. Achieving life means that one has to let his mind wonder and his heart free. A wanderer finds what most cannot and a free heart is freer than the limit of man. 

The Weight of Life in Currencies

The concept that nothing is free is a concept that has become a danger to true living. When nothing is free, then everything is at a cost and when that is such, life will not be values upon the soul and the heart, nor by the blisters in the hand and the life of desire but in the currency one posses.

Limited to dimming men

We are the limit that we ourselves limit by limiting the functionality of our body and mind therefore limiting the flare of the soul.

Strength

Strength is not in the holding of what one has submitted to. Strength is the stairs one has built to step out of the hole one has faded into. Strength is not living in a hole where ones mind is captive. Strength is capturing the knowledge rightfully ones and taking it under the sun to that one can watch it grow. Strength is the fight for freedom of the mind, freedom in belief and not the restrain of others believes other convictions or others use of ones weakness to empower themselves.

Depending on others...

Content does not depend on your significant other or any one in significant. It solely depends on your ability to be content sole, to be content with another person is the icing on the cake.

One One Fourteen

In the end of one revolution around the sun, brings life and hope to what is to come. As an ending brings beginning of a new, cherish the righteous and recollect the unpleasant. Be happy on this one one fourteen. Be content of success in leaving another year; be content to be here now.