Laughter Turns Into Long Living

Those who are full of laughter unburden themselves of the seriousness of life.

Culture of The Masses

Our cultures will break us from the masses before the masses break us from our cultures.

Suffering Relations

In a most relationship, those who get whom they want suffer the lost of their prize to someone else because in society we learn to want what society want rather just respect the presentation of society but find attraction in what one is already attracted to but denies because of the need to hold a plaque status.

The Rise of Individualism

The advertisement of individualism is most potent over the realism of societies structure.

Some of The Rotten Fruits

The means in a society is to have fresh fruits before the world and profess that there is nothing such as rotten. 

But we know that there is something such as rotten. But we do forget about the rotten because we do not see it. The more we try to make the world perfect in our eyes, the more we forget how beautiful the world is already is; beautiful is in the bad and good. Rotten food decay and becomes food for another organism and it keeps passing on until something else is born from it.

We must remind ourselves of the rotten of the world so that we know the world was always beautiful and no matter what man does to the world. It does not make it more beautiful because when the world fails, it something else is derived from it, but from what man makes, when it fails, it no longer serves purpose. 

Objects of Beliefs

Beliefs are paradigms of dreams. It is worth in value only when it has shaped into a physical object.

Where Do Lost Souls Go?

In our search for the ultimate self, we are more subtracted from the sense of life (the soul) and more entangle in the substance (the host) as we affix ourselves into tangibles or affixing tangibles into ourselves therefore losing our soul and losing our humanity.  

Freedom for you, you, and you

Freedom is a song beautifully song, but freedom is a false thing as every measure one takes to ensure ones freedom, one finds himself bound to another thing to promise him freedom but trick him into an even less free world.

Knowing We Are Creatures of Emotions

What emotions encounter is greater in the number of tragedy in violence.

We are not in control of ourselves. We believe that we are and that maybe fuel to the end action/ tragedy/ violence, when that time comes. It is a fuel because when one is not aware of something, the surprise of it is beyond what one can handle and something like emotions overpowers one for the time it is alive. When one is aware that his/ her emotion is greater than self, they are able to or would try harder to prevent themselves from actions that can be damaging to self or someone else.

"Man cannot control his emotions, but he can try to control his actions"

Failure To Stand

You cannot succumb to demands for they grow as they are met. Standing for the sake of standing is to over empower, sometimes what the reserve to is to be.

The things that does not mean a thing to one, can be the things that let one lose the respect one holds in himself from others. One must always place a lined circle around himself, and although one has no use for most of the space, so that others respect it. If one does not do so, one will find that even an inch, need later, will be difficult to obtain.

If You Don't See It, It Don't Exist

Something that lack substance are more existence than thing that are held in ones sight.

The meaning in anything is not so much the end product but the power invested in it; the hard work, feeling of failure before rising again to continue, the scars on ones hand, the feeling of productiveness. Mentioned are things that give meaning and value to anything one holds value to.

The Dead Minds

Our mind hold the existence of one's self. Knowledge is the things that fuel the mind more than anything to a longer existence. Without refining, we are closer to a dead mind, in which we are one step closer obsolete.  

Science & Religion

In religion is written that man is more than just a physical being, but a higher being that is lower under more ultimate beings (in respect to God, Angels, Spirits, and Other Powers), depending on religion. Man is to teach and pass knowledge to its offspring and live by the code given to him by his creator to the fullest extend as capable. in doing so, his Young can see by example and live to pass it on to their Young. Science pronounce man as nothing more than passer of information that the sole property is to procreate. Doing so to pass down the encryption of our ancestor or our creator up until it is extend that is needed. Only looking at the process of so called life can one come to the realization that both could come to be true. 

Fair Love

Give your tender love, your though love, your care and your discipline. A better world is not made by protecting the wrong, nor allowing innocent to suffer. Give fair love, fair care and you shall received it and so shall your loved ones.

World Perfect

The world is a shape that is not perfect. When it starts to look perfect, then you know something is wrong.

The Way You See

You see things only according to the meaning it is to you. That is the downfall of all man. Our strength is being able to know that is so. We are better when we try to make sure we see it not only in our prospective, but in the prospective of others.

Right Back

Not knowing is not enough claim you did not know, if you are old enough to know. All the good, bad, wrong and right will return. But never as you expect it nor when you expect it.

Accomplishments of Life

Accomplishment of life is to leave something (imprint) in people. To live past your life time is to leave change in someone. [be kind to yourself and your neighbors]

Be Demanding of the Worth

The worth of things are not entirely dependent on the seller, in fact the only dependence on the worth is for the seller to make one think it's worth. Your demand truly is the determination of the worth.

Losing

It is easy to lose yourself trying to fit in the world. It is better to lose yourself trying to fit in your own skin.
[you'll find yourself in your own skin but you may never find yourself in the world]

Q&A

The questions you do not get the answers to, are the questions you really don't want the answers to.

More or Less

You are either less than you think you are or more than you think you are. It is all time dependent.

How Quick You Age

What is the hurry? You have a lifetime to fail, a lifetime to learn, a lifetime to love, and all of the above. Why then are you racing time? If you run, does not time run?

The Means To Half

Everything seems better when you only have half.

Failing in Life

Those who leave the relationship that they have already established will still have to learn from the mistake they did not learn from that relationship. Leaving some to continually fail in relationship up until they learn that they are part of every failure and every success no matter how little.

In Deed of your Deeds

You live as long as you are not forgotten but your deeds live beyond the length of your life.

Life: The Meaning

The meaning of life is to find the meaning of every meaning. But the meaning of every meaning will not lead you to the meaning of life, but the current state of what you think life is meaning.

Letting go The Controller

Living in control will only mean that your life will serve you best, when you are not in control. Lose it, Control.

Not Now

If you do not do it now, then you must do it later. And if all the things are pushed for later, your future is welcoming hardship.

We Must End To Begin

The meaning of the circle is to never end. The meaning of the end differs depending on whom, when, and where. What is true is to every bitter ending is a great beginning and to every great beginning is a greater ending. 

We Must Have it So

There is not only one way. There are a thousands ways, forget your way and the other thousands ways will come to you

Surrounded By People and Things

You must first understand the people and things around you, only then can you better understand yourself.

Distactions

Distraction is the thing that helps us live most. without it, we would parish.

Standing: With Correction

We must stand for what is right but also make way for correction to pass while we stand

The Little Things

Those who enjoy the little things enjoy life most

Give

Those whom you give the most, are likely those whom get back the least. Conclude these unfairness by giving them what they give you. Why? Because if we do not, we are promoting selfishness.

War

We are at war with the globe; with race, with sex, with size, with height, with opinion, with law, with religion, with spirituality, with consumption, with parenting. We are at war, with ourselves.

Your Loss

If you win, we around you win. If you grow, we around you grow. You are our inner circle, part of us. If you fail, so shall we.

Controlled Treatments

You can be in control of how you are treated. You can manage someone attitude around you. Learn their ways and start with most positivism and go as far as needed to get their attention.

Blood

Blood is thicker than water, but it is not the thickest thing.

Acceptance of One

Accepting someone for whom they are is not the same as accepting someones bad manners. Whom they are, is something they cannot change. What they do and how they do it, is something everyone can change. Being treated too good or very bad is attitude towards someone or something and people do not always know the difference from in the bubble. Only we outside the bubble can teach them of themselves.

[Our mind makes us think we are good people even though we are not sometimes] Reminding your mind that it is biased is one way to start the change.

Forcing Your Way

 Do not force for or against anything that just will not happen, sometimes time will guide you to the place where all you have to do is be there and it will come to you

Wheel to the Road

You are not in control of where the road takes you, you are however in control of the wheel.

Trusting Yourself

If you have many secrets, then even you cannot trust yourself. [See]

Why Do We Have To Be...

You have to be held against your will to remember that you have a will. You have to be paralyzed to realize that you want to do anything now. You have to lose your home to realize any size will do. You have to starve to know that almost anything is food. You have to be sterile to really want a kid...You have to be... But why do we have to be... 

Mind & Experience

Nothing is truly yours. Not your home, not your wife/ your husband, your children, your clothing, your things. What is truly yours can never be taken away.

Give

Give a smile to someone today, make their day and you will receive much more back. 

The Truth of Age

If we wipe ourselves from all that we grew up learning, would we not find errors, and in finding those errors, would we not have made our way from our bad habits? Our prejudice/ biased? Our way from the bad things we have learned? 

The age of concern

When age stop being a number and start being a concern, that's when you should be concerned 

At the opposite ends

A rich man cannot tell a poor man's story nor can a happy man tell a good sad story

I am sooooo proud of you

You cannot make a person who you are not proud of be proud of you. You cannot make a person who has no interest in you be proud of you. You cannot make a person who you need to be proud of you to be proud of you. Save your need of proud and accept people who are proud of you.

Out the feelings

One should not cry borrowed tears, one should cry his own. 

Jealous-Less

Jealousy is a wasted (not good to have) emotion. Why do we want it? Why do we need it? Why does it make us feel like we mean something?

The Steps To No Where

Sometimes the stairs you are climbing lead no where. We may have to walk back down to start over, or we may understand that all step lead to different paths.

Reason

Everything happens for a reason. When you believe that, you can better see the connections.

Clutter of Meaningless

Sometimes fighting for something which needs no fighting for is needed to remind yourself how meaningful it still is. What is not meant fighting for should not be kept in the meaningful box.

How easy it is to lose

It takes seconds to lose, all that it took forever to build, so hold it very close to you.

What it's Worth

hard work is supposed to show, if not how do we know what it's worth?

Building...

build all that you want, nothing survives without foundation

Meaning of Life part I

The search for Heaven is not where you think you can find it. The hard work for gold is worth nothing but to buy more nothings that will slow you down. The search for happiness is the biggest waste of time because the time searching for it is the time you could have been happy. We are rich man and poor man, and we are all looking for heaven (meaning, happiness, God, beginning of life outside earth, something more than just man)

12:12

Some one is thinking of you. Someone truly cares for you... Leave your state of being and let that person in

In the art of love

Which battles are you willing to give up to win the war?

Consequences

There are consequences to everything:

Love/ Hate
Good/ Bad
Jealousy/ Rejoice
Give/ Take
and etc.

Mind at work

There are things you cannot do with your hands, that you can do with your mind

What's In Your Hands

It is wise to learn that you are not always the master to your road, but you can be the master to the horse that rides the road

Why

Surviving the past is not enough to making it to the future. You must understand the past so that you can make a way into the future.

The Way to Finding Self

Things have to be lost before their are found. In order to find yourself, you cannot already have found yourself; so lose yourself.

Meaning

The meaning in everything has it's own meaning, sometimes within that meaning is the search for a meaning. When you cannot find your keys, you dig to find it, and so when there is no visibility to a meaning, you should dig to find it.

HAVE YOU LIVED?

Have you live?

the moment of full joy
the moment of reward
            the moment of self-reward

The moment when everything you are doing seems unreal and you wish that time would stand still so that the moments last...

YOUR-SELF

Do you see yourself?

The Steps we must/ mustn't take

How do we know which are to be stepped over and those that we must stay within?

[Battle Lines]

Rich Man, Poor Man, and Heaven

You do not know I, but I am the closest to GOD; see HE has blessed me with all the gold, and a throne that I once belonged to me was taken away from me. But the gold, it is a blessing that few have received. It may be a blessing that has been given to all, but too many, too busy holding on at the edge of the mountain, trying to climb the walls of the sky to receive Heaven. Heaven is not up there, I know where Heaven is, and it is not up there...



- The search for Heaven is not where you think you can find it. The hard work for gold is worth nothing but to buy more nothings that will slow you down. The search for happiness is the biggest waste of time because the time searching for it is the time you could have been happy. We are rich man and poor man, and we are all looking for heaven.

© EOU 2010

FFFFRRREEEEEEEE

Having a purpose means you are not free. Free is when you have no ties and/ or are not bound to anything. Free is not free, except things we want to be free from.

Too Much

Too much of good is bad, too much of bad is bad. Too much water is bad, not enough water is bad. Loving someone too much is bad, the same if it's not enough. Too much trust is bad and so is not enough. All of these means there needs to be a balance.

Change Our Fate

What you see means nothing if there is no one to share it with...

You, Period

The periods of what made you are visible, but only if you are looking from the right mind

HAPPY TODAY!!!!!

Today is a great day. The sun is high and might somewhere and people are full of laughter. Picture the rest of your day being one of the most pleasant. Picture it with warm feelings and you shall have it

Better US

Savings someone is a responsibility we are given as man, no matter how small the saving, you are contributing for a better us

Responsibility in short

Those who are responsible should break away and be irresponsible (for a short while). Those who are irresponsible should break away and be responsible (indefinitely)

Lead to health

The steps you take towards a healthy life are the steps people around you will follow

Success Comes Easier

Those who acquire their needs before their wants get more of their wants

What's not yours

What is not yours is surely someone else's, respect it like it was your and you shall receive again and again

Say Thank You

Be grateful for the great gifts and much as for the lesser, no matter how little

It's not free

Some is got to give, for you to receive. The question is what or when?

You Are The Judge

It is time to give in and face yourself, your actions. It is time to judge yourself so that you leave no room for someone to judge you.

Teachers

Teacher are preachers, but those who don't preach are hardly teachers 

Thing aren't as they seem

The story is always truer from the other side

Living blind

If you do not open your eyes today, when then will you?

Live once

When you battle between the right and the left, you make a happy decision if you remember that you only live once [in this life time].

Untitled

The heart goes only so far before the mind takes over

For Sure

There is a chance that you do not know someone as well as you thought you did and there is a chance you know them better than you thought you did. To really know anyone, you must imagine them in the worst and in the best. To do that most properly, you need to remove any bias.

Accomplish Worlds

Together, it's amazing what we can accomplish. To achieve togetherness, we need trust. To get to trust, it needs to be earned. To earn trust, one must believe

Breaking Point

Why is it that sometimes various strangers can come together (unknowingly/ coincidentally)  and push one to the breaking point? Is it coincident? Is it attraction? Or is it just meant to be? I stay open minded to the possibilities.

The Glass

The glass is half empty
when you need water
and half full
when you had enough

What you think of yourself

It's not what anyone thinks of you that really matter, its what you think of yourself. Old age teaches you that.

Success

Sometimes your excuses are the things that keep you from succeeding  .

Judge -mental

We are daily judges. We judge everyone and everything as it is perceived to us. Only when we understand or have been in the shoes of those who are being judged is when we can realize we do not have to judge.  

Destination Life

Your destination is already marked, how you will get there is entirely up to you

Simple

Sometimes being simple is fresh of air that one do not know is needed.

Not Worth Your...

No product or service will ever be worth the hard money you work for, unless you understand what it takes to make the product or service

Worlds Are Words Apart

Somewhere, there is a world for you. You can't find it because you are searching way too hard or you may have found it, but looking into the world you don't belong.

Happy, Happy, Joy, Joy

People begin to fail in being happy when they start to believe they are happy enough. People who are not happy enough, are those who don't know how to be simply happy. Find your happiness

In Trusting In Self Doubt

Giving into self doubt is the only way to understand what your mistakes are.

Honesty to Self

Realizing that you are not fully honest with yourself is the first step to surpassing your difficulties. 

The Day is Yours

It is your day, and when you let anyone spoil it, it no longer is your day. It becomes theirs.

Foolish Thing to Forget

It will be foolish to forget anything, for forgetting only means you will repeat the same mistake.

There's More Than Physical Handicaps

Not seeing the world, leaves a man handicapped

From: La Dolce Vita

Peace in ones

To never part from ones self, is to never find peace

From: La Dolce Vita

Beyond Yourself

To stay in the same stale air, is to know noting beyond

From: La Dolce Vita

Forgive, Forgive, Forgive

Forgiving someone for who they are does not mean accepting their failure to be whom they can be.

[True Meaning of Giving]

Take only what you are willing to give back, give two, three, or four times what you expect to get back, expect to get back nothing... The true meaning for giving

The Pain Bearer

The pain you caused is not something that you can comprehend. It means little to nothing to you until you feel the pain. Rather measuring it from your point of view, measure it from the person who is/ was in pain's point of view.

In the Moment

In the moment is sometimes when we must realize what needs to be done. People are looking for the moment and some have found it. The moment, all should know, is best when it finds you.

A Time When Time Was All We Had...

pay your love with time
your respect with your presence
your time shows that you care
leave monetary anything
and pay with time

Turn Around

How far do you go before you turn around? How much do you need to give up and turn around? How long will you live with the fact that you turn around? How do you know that you need to turn the turn around?

Time telling you it's worth it

Just give it a little time. It is worth it at all times, but you will start to see that only

On Time

Time is nothing but what you make it. You can fill it with joy or anguish, but at the end time is really nothing but what you make it

Give a little, Get a little

Give a little time, get a little time. Give a little love, get a little love. Give nothing, get something now, but get a whole lot of nothing later.

Waiting

Waiting is something that takes so much from you. Perfect waiting by keeping yourself busy.

Really Man

We are willing to give the most of what we cannot handle and we are able to handle the most of what we are not willing to give.

Business

Your choice maybe to keep your opinion to yourself and let your presence see what you could not

Best Blog Award

I was nominated by Lena @ Gemelo for best blog awards. Lena, many thanks. You have a great blog and I am more than happy look at every new post ;-)

LENA You have a great and fun blog. Thank you

There are logically also certain rules that must be observed when participating:

1 . Each nominee posting his nomination with the image above and reported, who nominated him.

2nd There are 11 questions to be answered.

3rd After another 20 blogs nominated under 200 followers. These nominees are then of course informed by the comment above!

BEST TO ALL

Questions:

1st: What do you like to cook: sweet or savory dishes?

I love cooking savory dishes - things come to mind and I must experiment

2nd: What is more important in a person: the personality or appearance?

Personality is important. Appearance can be dealt with later.

3rd: When you founded the blog?

August 2012

4th: Who inspired you to start in this world with something new? 

My inspiration come from people who voice their opinion in respect to others. Most friends that enjoy my thoughts and writing.

5th: Do you follow many blogs?

I love to read other blogs and so I do follow many. Maybe too many ;-)

6th: Do you prefer to cook for yourself or for others?

I like to cook but I love to display it to others. It's not great until someone tells me it is.

7th: What book are you reading right now?

I am reading:

THE TIPPING POINT By Malcolm Gladwell

NATIVE SON By Richard Wright

KITE RUNNER By Khaled Hosseini

MAN'S SEARCH FOR MEANING By Viktor E. Frankl

8th: Which garment has survived the longest in your closet?

H&M clothing, Leather Jacket {also H&M}

9th: What is your favorite recipe?

I can't say I have one favorite. If I could I would eat it all [Maybe French, Italian, Indian, and Nigerian]

10th: What qualities of a person are important in a friendship?

Trust, honesty, loyalty, humor, open, reading, and very social

11th: What is your favorite movie?

A few but that come to mind;

Silverlining Playbook

Limitless

RocknRola

Takers

I NOMINATE:

Theroadishome

GemeloKarla Read

Simply Moments

Beckas Fotoblogg

sommersehnsucht

* Evα`s Diαry ‹3 Photogrαphie.

The Fantastic Realms of Creativity

rosángela bichara

Have Faith In Me ♥i

mBilde - monika reiter fotografie

Johnny Lopes Art

Roles

A dear cannot decide to be a lion no more than a lion would wan to be a dear. We each have a role, and not playing it brings destruction to our development.

We Are Not Superbeings

If we are all managers, who will be managed? In a world of so many, we need those that will lead, those that will take out the garbage, and those that will be in the middle.

The Rules of Making... Happy

All the things you think you do for someone maybe what you are doing for yourself. When you do something for someone, the feeling of their content gives you a high sense of happiness and fulfillment, without rewards. No expectation of emotional offering, monetary, or any kind of pay back.

What You Put In: Greed

A bucket is not to be filled. It is only to put a little more than enough to see the end of the day.

Income Determines Outcome

The beginning of day determines the outcome of someones end of day as the begging of someones life determines the difficulties and ease of someones life. 

Survival of Man

Those who make a hard children (in respect to mental and physical push) are those who make children that will hate them but those children will be mans' survival.

Giver Are Sometimes Losers

Those who give their children everything are those who have not thought their children from losing everything.

Take Advantage

Those who take advantage of someone hate the fact that anyone is taking advantage of that person.

Spoiled Cherries

Those who have not lost that of what is important in being a young adult and an adult are those who lose self to control. Those without self control are those with destructive personalities; those who stand too firm or too against something that there is little space for compromise or [true] open mindedness.

Role

There are roles for men and roles for women. Those roles are illuminate as it is seen who does a better job doing what (in the most part). A dear cannot decide to be a lion no more than a lion would wan to be a dear.

Primal

Believing is the staircase to being. Without belief, we fall into what we are born with; primal instict

Self Serving

Man is easier most on him/ herself because he/ she believes he/ she is the best he/ she can be. But man is harder on everyone else because it is easier to see what others do wrong and right.

Knowing is The First Step

No one ever understand a story the same, but every one of us have the chance to know that we do not understand the story the same.

Well

Sometimes things we do make situations worse, even though we mean well.

Personal Interests

We love ourselves more than anyone and we would do anything for ourselves before we do for anyone else, sometime we just fool ourselves into believing we put others first.

How far can you go?

We can only go so far by ourselves in life before we fall into the need of our counterparts 

Need

Forget what you want to be and be what you need to be

Who Matters

No one matters all the time and knowing who should matter and when is mastering we don't think to master.

Failing To Know

Your failure to know will someday be someones else's failure to see.

Hiding in The Details

Nothings is never the way it appears and how many times do things appear the way they are?

You can't buy happiness

Happiness can be bought, but it does not last as much concurrency free happiness.

Worth of Nothing

There's no worse feeling than feeling like you are worth nothing. No one is worth a thing, we are all a small part of what is to come.

Bad Day

Sometime the worst long days can last more than that day. It is up to you when it ends.

How much you receive

Sometimes you only get back as much as you put in, but sometimes what you put in is repayment for all that you have taken.

Present

Time is for those who need to share their love to share their love, for those who need to love themselves better learn to care for self. Tomorrow could be the present you don't get to open.

Digging for Wealth or Debt

Those who dig, always find something. When you dig, you always find more than you are looking for.